{"id":512,"date":"2008-09-19T08:49:44","date_gmt":"2008-09-19T08:49:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/10.131.168.108\/wordpress\/?p=512"},"modified":"2008-09-19T08:49:44","modified_gmt":"2008-09-19T08:49:44","slug":"friday-morning-thoughts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/2008\/09\/19\/friday-morning-thoughts\/","title":{"rendered":"Friday morning thoughts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I spent much of yesterday at my parents house so my mom could spend some time with Chris at the hospital.&nbsp; Holly was napping, and Kelly was at school.&nbsp; So Dad and I chatted while I made chocolate chip cookies (per the girls&#8217; request to my mom) and then I stayed there with Holly while he went to get Kelly.&nbsp; We spent the rest of the afternoon playing with play-doh and balls and bicycles.&nbsp; While we were outside, the girls picked a bunch of marigold flowers and &#8220;re-planted&#8221; them in the garden dirt next to their teepee.&nbsp;<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/s.xanga.com\/images\/whatevah.gif\">&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>And speaking of the teepee, Eric uploaded the pictures of the girls when Karen and I were down on Wednesday to his <a href=\"http:\/\/www.elhogue.com\/gallery\/v\/family\/TheGirlsSeptember2008\/\">website<\/a>.&nbsp; Let me know if the link doesn&#8217;t work!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m reading a book by Madeleine L&#8217;Engle right now called <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">A Circle of Quiet<\/span>, and some of her thoughts have meant a lot to me this week:&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>1.&nbsp; &#8220;A Russian priest, Father Anthony, told me, &#8216;To say to anyone &#8220;I love you&#8221; is tantamount to saying &#8220;You shall live forever.&#8221;&#8216;&#8221;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I read this quote early in the week, and I thought of Deb and Chris.&nbsp; When we love someone, and choose tell them so, we affirm that person&#8217;s worth and meaning, we acknowledge that they are real, an eternal soul.&nbsp; So it is in the moments when we lose, or almost lose, someone we love that we quickly drop all our pettiness and remember to say how much we love each other.&nbsp; We need to remind them, and ourselves, that we matter, that our lives have counted for something bigger than our day timers might indicate.&nbsp; <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>2. Then later in the book, L&#8217;Engle comments, &#8220;To matter in the scheme of the cosmos: this is better theology than all our sociology.&nbsp; It is, in fact, all that God has promised to us: that we matter. That he cares.&#8221;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>God hasn&#8217;t promised us an easy road or quick solutions.&nbsp; He&#8217;s promised that we matter to him.&nbsp; That he is with us no matter what.&nbsp; That he cares about us.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>3.&nbsp; And finally: &#8220;Then there&#8217;s a third way to live: to live as though you believe that the power behind the universe is a power of love, a personal power of love, a love so great that all of us really do matter to him.&nbsp; He loves us so much that every single one of our lives has meaning; he really does know about the fall of every sparrow, and the hairs of our head are really counted.&nbsp; That&#8217;s the only way I can live.&#8221;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>God says he loves us, so we must matter.&nbsp; And this is the faith that I&#8217;ve seen in my brother, especially, this week as he lived out the belief that God&#8217;s love underscores everything that happens (even the bad things) and so we can face whatever the day holds.&nbsp; I&#8217;ve watched him trust God in very dark hours.&nbsp; I watched him have to make hard decisions about what was best at any given moment.&nbsp; He&#8217;s gone to apologize to doctors when he thought it necessary, and he&#8217;s reached out to other hurting people.&nbsp; Thanks, Chris, for living out a faith worth sharing!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I spent much of yesterday at my parents house so my mom could spend some time with Chris at the hospital.&nbsp; Holly was napping, and Kelly was at school.&nbsp; So Dad and I chatted while I made chocolate chip cookies &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/2008\/09\/19\/friday-morning-thoughts\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-512","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/512","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=512"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/512\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=512"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=512"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=512"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}