{"id":258,"date":"2010-01-14T11:12:24","date_gmt":"2010-01-14T11:12:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/10.131.168.108\/wordpress\/?p=258"},"modified":"2010-01-14T11:12:24","modified_gmt":"2010-01-14T11:12:24","slug":"the-male-factor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/2010\/01\/14\/the-male-factor\/","title":{"rendered":"The Male Factor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No, this is not a post about Eric.&nbsp; <IMG height=15 src=\"http:\/\/www.xanga.com\/Images\/smiley3.gif\" width=15><\/p>\n<p>Actually, I had decided I was not going to do any more posts reviewing books.&nbsp; I love getting the free books.&nbsp; But I don&#8217;t so much love the subtle pressure I felt to be &#8220;nice&#8221; in my reviews even if I didn&#8217;t love the book.&nbsp; So I was going to be done.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>And then, the day after I&#8217;d made this decision, I got another email about a book that really intrigued me. <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">The Male Factor<\/span> (see above).&nbsp; So even though I&#8217;m a SAHM these days and this book is actually about men in the work world, I decided to read it.&nbsp; And it&#8217;s been very interesting, to say the least.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Shaunti Feldhahn has written previously about the differences between men and women in <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">For Women Only<\/span> and <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">For Men Only<\/span> (written with her husband) and now she is addressing how those differences, and resulting (mis)perceptions, sometimes cause women to struggle in their outside-the-home interactions with men.&nbsp; Her idea is that if women realize how the male brain works and what rules they &#8220;play&#8221; by, they will be better able to interact successfully and decide whether to challenge those rules (when necessary).&nbsp; It is not a book about &#8220;how women need to be different at work&#8221; so much as &#8220;what women need to understand about men so they don&#8217;t shoot themselves in the foot&#8221; at work.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Now, for the sake of full disclosure, I am not finished with the book yet.&nbsp; I&#8217;m about halfway through.&nbsp; But as I am not currently working outside the home, it hasn&#8217;t been a pressing read.&nbsp; But the insights have been really intriguing, and I can easily see their application even on committees or at church or in any situation where men and women have to work together to accomplish a task.<\/p>\n<p>So, I really have no qualms about recommending this book.&nbsp; It&#8217;s worth a read if you work with men on a regular basis.&nbsp; And it might just explain some things about those strange male creatures, whom we all know and love, that have been confusing us for a long time.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Anyway, if you want more information about the book, check out the Multnomah <a href=\"http:\/\/www.randomhouse.com\/catalog\/display.pperl?isbn=9780307457721&amp;ref=externallink_wbp_extraordinary_sec_0817_01\" rel=\"nofollow\">website<\/a>.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>And of course (per the FTC regulations), <font face=\"Cambria\"><span style=\"font-family: Cambria;\">this book was provided for review by the WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, that wasn&#8217;t so bad, was it?&nbsp; Maybe I&#8217;ll keep getting free books for review after all&#8230;<br \/><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No, this is not a post about Eric.&nbsp; Actually, I had decided I was not going to do any more posts reviewing books.&nbsp; I love getting the free books.&nbsp; But I don&#8217;t so much love the subtle pressure I felt &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/2010\/01\/14\/the-male-factor\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-258","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=258"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/258\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elhogue.com\/shannah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}