Picture Time!

For those who haven’t seen it yet (but want to), I did get an album of 18 month pictures loaded into Facebook yesterday.

I think this link should get you there. 

 

It’s 8:30 now, and I’m getting tired.  I got a ton of little things done today.  The babies played really well while I worked.  And we even turned off the AC and opened the windows for the day!  Lovely!  Much as I love summer, I am certainly enjoying this “September-like” weather for the week!

Anyway, I’m off to read in bed for a bit…hope you have a lovely Thursday!

I’ve got mail!

Actually, just as I opened the weblog editor, my mail program dinged at me.  But you should all consider yourselves important.  I have not stopped typing this to check what (probably useless) email I just got.  I know, I’m a giver…

QUICK EDIT: It turned out the email was not useless…it was from Kimberly!  Yay for real email!  END EDIT

Sadly, I don’t have much to tell from this week.  Um…let’s see…

We went to the zoo for a bit with Karen and Jason yesterday morning.  A zoo pass is SO worth the money.  

I talked to more people I know (mostly from church) in the 90 minutes were at the zoo yesterday than I have in weeks.  How weird is that…

The babies sleep schedule is just strange these days again.  Not bad, but possibly changing.  I’m not sure where we’ll end up.

Sadly, my sleep pattern is also off.  I’m not tired at bedtime, but I’m exhausted in the morning.  Of course, it doesn’t help that Alex has been waking up 1-2 times the last couple of nights.  He doesn’t need me, but his fussing wakes me up.  

Last night, I got to do Sudoku puzzles in the middle of the night.  I was not exactly happy about that, but as I was unexpectedly called to the bathroom by my lower intestines for about 30 minutes, I got a couple of puzzles done.   Lucky me.  *rolls eyes*

I made cookies yesterday afternoon.  They turned out pretty well.  And the babies definitely love chocolate chip cookies…I split one between them and we had chocolate everywhere (on them…I managed to keep the house/furniture unaffected).  

NLS is quite the little dancer these days.  It won’t be long before I’ll probably be able to let the twins feel her move.  I’m kind of looking forward to seeing the looks on their faces when they feel her kick them.  Maybe I’ll try to get a video.

I do have pictures almost ready to post, but I may just put them in a Facebook album.  They did turn out really cute, some of them!

This morning I have started a load of laundry, worked on tidying in our upstairs spaces (loft/nursery/master bedroom), and taken the babies for a walk in the wagon.  Next I’m going to shower and then keep working on cleaning while they nap.  Maybe I will even get the upstairs vacuumed today (don’t hold your breath!)…

Okay, I guess I had more to say than I realized.  But I think that covers most of our recent comings & goings…happy Wednesday!

Collection of Thoughts

I don’t know how I have so much random stuff in my head just after 7:00 am on a Monday morning, but here’s a glimpse for you…

Last Friday, I looked up my posts from the 24th week of my twin pregnancy.  My belly was measuring 32 weeks.  Can I tell you how nice it is to be measuring only 24 this time?!

We had a really nice weekend.  We had no plans.  We just hung out together and worked/cleaned around the house.  This morning, the house actually looks good (I give it about 30 more minutes to change completely!). 

On Sunday, we tried to get some 18 month pictures of the twins.  It was an interesting attempt, but I think we found a few good ones (I’ll post a couple later). 

I read a blog this morning that a friend of mine linked to on FB.  The family has 10 children (about half are adopted).  I was reading about the Ugandan orphanage where the children go from the Baby Orphanage to the Big Orphanage at age 2-3, and once there, they can never be adopted.  It broke my heart, to be honest.  To be 4 years old without any hope of finding a family.  So sad.   Can’t think about it too much or I’ll start crying again.  It’s a good thing I know God cares about the orphans and widows…

So I have trouble with my hip hurting when I’m pregnant.  It feels like it needs to crack, but I can’t get a good angle to do it when I’m pregnant because of the belly. On Saturday, I ironed and washed dishes by hand, both chores that strain my hip.  Then Sunday morning, I was scheduled to work the crawler nursery (8-13 months), but ended up volunteering to move to the 2-year old room.  Needless to say, my hip was bugging me pretty badly yesterday afternoon.  So I actually tried to sit/lay down as much as possible.  Today, it seems to be better, so hopefully, we can keep it that way!

Eric made dinner for us all last night.  He made French Toast, using Alton Brown’s recipe (food network guy, if you don’t know) and bacon. It was yummy! Unfortunately, I had to clean up after dinner…so somehow that part didn’t work out in my favor…but the rest of it was good!

After a week of strange nap schedules, I made sure we had 2 naps a day all weekend long.  We are finally starting to return to a “normal” schedule again.  It is so strange how babies actually do sleep less, the less sleep they get.  Weird…

Oh, and lastly, thanks to all the comments and advice on Friday’s post.  I just needed to hear some “what worked for me” stories, so your comments were very helpful.  Still no clear plans, but at least I have some ideas!

Okay, I need to go play with my son (Erin’s still sleeping!)…happy Monday!

New Baby Conundrums

Here is a list of things I am pondering in regards to the arrival of NLS (new little sister) in October.  I’ll be honest, some of them are weighing heavily on me because I have simply no idea what to do.  So I’m going to write them down here to get them out of my head and to ask for any feedback or ideas you might have.

1. The car issue.  The issue is that we need to fit 3 carseats (2 convertible, 1 infant) into some vehicle.  Our Toyota…not an option.  Our Jeep…possibly an option with smaller convertible seats.  Pros to the Jeep: no car payments, decent cargo room.  Cons to the Jeep: awkward maneuvering to get all kids in/out, probably will need to buy new seats for the twins.  Pros to buying a new vehicle: more seats, potentially easier maneuvering.  Cons: cost, potential for loss of cargo space.  

2. The stroller issue.  I have to move 3 kids at once, none of whom will be able to walk unattended yet.  And I have no idea what to do about that.  Just no idea.  Do I stick with my double umbrella and just carry NLS somehow?  Do I buy a triple stroller?  Do I attach the twins to a single stroller (which we’d also have to buy) with those leash-things I see people use?  See…no idea.

3. The crib issue.  So this week’s recalls finally include our two cribs.  I knew that was coming, though our cribs have had no issues.  So now I have to decide what to do with two cribs that, by December, I probably won’t be able to sell to anyone.  Do I just get the “repair kit” and keep using the cribs until the twins are done with them (however long that will be)? Do I move them to toddler beds and get rid of the recalled cribs?  Do I move them to toddler beds and use one of the “repaired” cribs for NLS? Do I buy a new crib for NLS and let the twins continue as they are?  Do I just pitch the two recalled cribs and buy three new cribs, two of which may be used for only months more?  

4. The room issue.  The issue is that I have no idea how to rearrange my house to accommodate another child.  Do I make the guest room into the twins’ room so that NLS have the nursery and just do without any guest space?  Do I leave the guest bed but set up half the room as a nursery for NLS and let the twins stay in the room they have now?  If I get rid of guest bed, where to I sleep mothers who come to help with NLS arrives (typically our only real guests)?  Do I put all three kids in the same room and make the current nursery into a guest room?  And whatever I decide, how do I fit in another crib and dresser (which also needs to be found/bought) into either room (which are both currently maxed out in terms of space/furniture)?  

 

So those are the top 4 issues frustrating me these days.  I realize that we have 3 months or so to decide, but for some reason, not having any sort of good plans is stressing me out a bit.  And reading all the crib recall notice stuff tonight just added to my annoyance and sense of being behind.   So, feel free to offer opinions, advice, “here’s what we did” sort of responses, or just reminders not to get my panties in a wad about things that will take care of themselves eventually.  Any/all of your responses will be helpful, I’m sure.  And thanks for letting me vent…

Water Park

So we went to the water park again today because my MIL was here.  I figured she would enjoy going with us (she did), and I’ve been wanting to take them with support to see if Erin might be coaxed to enjoy the water.  It really was a good time.  Alex loved it even more than last time.  And Erin actually spent more time standing on her own than being held.  She still had moments of being concerned, but really started having fun by the end.  By the end of the summer, I’m hoping she’ll be running around with her brother (though I won’t hold my breath for that!).  

Also, my MIL got some pictures of them, so here were a couple of my favorites:

          

 

In other good news, I had my 24 week appointment this morning.  All is well.  Blood pressure – good.  Weight gain – good.  Belly measuring exactly 24 weeks.  Happy little heartbeat at 150-160 bpm.  She’s been doing little happy dances morning, noon, and night.  So we are very happy with our progress.  

To my dismay, I also got my little bottle of glucose drink for the 28-week appointment diabetes test.  I am going to start praying now that we do not have to deal with gestational diabetes again.  Feel free to join me in that prayer for the next 4 weeks!

And…though I can reveal nothing…we have a front-runner in the “Name the NLS” game (NLS = new little sister)…very exciting!

Fireworks Update

From my editorial yesterday, I was surprised to hear how many of you have struggled/are struggling with fireworks-loving neighbors.  And while calling the police is certainly an option, as we had never actually talked to them about it, I didn’t feel comfortable just reporting it.  These are people who don’t know Jesus and it felt wrong to turn them in without asking them to stop first…but then turn around and ask them to church, you know?

So we had done nothing but mutter a bit to ourselves at the increasing frequency.

But last night, wouldn’t you know it, our worst-offender neighbor (who actually lives next door) came over and asked us about it.  Crazy, huh?

Turns out that someone in the cul-de-sac did call the sheriff last week, so he was talking to people to make sure he wasn’t “pissing people off” or anything.  His words, obviously.  We suspect we know who did call the cops (it wasn’t us), and they aren’t great neighbors anyway.  But he took the hint to talk to people personally, which I really appreciated.

So anyway, we did mention that they were really only a problem before the kids fell asleep (so far, they haven’t heard the sounds once they’re down for the night) and that weekends are better than regularly through the week.  And of course, he indicated that it’s just a build-up to the Fourth and after that weekend, he won’t really do it any more.   So as we agreed, there just had to be a balance.   And the issue seems resolved.  

And since I’d told you all about it just yesterday, I thought I’d share the new turn of events, too.  Happy Tuesday!

The Baby Times (vol. 3, iss. 1)

(Okay, really I can’t remember what vol./iss. this should be, so I’m starting fresh!)

Front Page

Headline #1: Father’s Day a huge success

Synopsis: Yesterday was a fun day.  Eric got a card from his kids in the morning.  I had printed out a free card that they “colored” for him.  He really liked it, I think.  Then we spent the day with my family since Eric’s parents weren’t home yesterday.  We actually drove down to C-ville for church (the whole family was there), put the kids in Grace’s nursery (they did great), and then spent the afternoon at my parents’ house.  My brother and dad were in a video they showed at church, which was cool to see.  And my dad seemed to enjoy his gifts and cards, as well as just getting to spend the day surrounded by his kids and grandkids.  It was really a fun day.  And my mom made a really yummy brunch for us all.  She’s awesome, too!

Headline #2: No Sleep for the Weary

Synopsis: For some reason, the babies had a very bad sleep day yesterday.  Of course, Sunday morning means no morning nap.  And we decided to hold them up until dinner after church.  Finally, they collapsed (quite happily) into their pack n plays for a nap.  But they were up again in about an hour.  Yikes!  So we left my parents in the late afternoon so they could (hopefully) nap a bit on the way home and then get to bed at a decent time.  Um…no such luck.  Neither slept on the drive home.  And even though they kept lying down after supper (on floors, couches, us), when we put them to bed, they wouldn’t go to sleep.  To tired to relax, I guess. Thankfully, they still weren’t too inclined to melt down.  And they did sleep most of the night.  But you can be very sure, we will be getting on-time naps today!

Headline #3: Saturday filled with Chores

Synopsis:  We cleaned, organized, and purged all day on Saturday.  While I was at a hair appointment, Eric started on some of the kitchen counters and then moved to the garage.  When I got home, I kept working in the kitchen and eventually moved to the laundry room (I found the top of the dryer!).  Eric also worked outside a good bit.  He’s almost done with the mulching.  And three years after we created it, he finished the flower bed on the side of the house.  It looks awesome!  While the upstairs is still in a bit of disarray (especially since some piles simply moved from kitchen to loft), the downstairs is looking fabulous.  Yay for us!

 

Arts & Leisure

Movie Review: Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs

Synopsis: I was surprised how much I did not really like this movie.  It was just too weird.  The characters weren’t bad.  The premise wasn’t bad.  But the actual plot was so ridiculous and unbelievable that I stopped being able to “willingly suspend” my disbelief.  So, maybe you really just have to be in elementary school to enjoy this movie.  Or maybe it’s just not worth watching.  I wonder if the book is that bad, too…

Book Review: The Lost Symbol by Dan Brown

Synopsis: The book has a fast-paced and interesting plot.  The characters were very good.  And there were a couple of plot twists thrown in which caught me totally by surprise.  So far, so good.  Unfortunately, the “theology” and “bibliology” of this book (if they can even be called by those names) were frighteningly problematic.  I knew to expect a lack of good exegesis from reading The Da Vinci Code, and I have never yet figured out whether these ideas are Brown’s own or just necessary to the characters.  But for all the hoopla that surrounded Da Vinci and its “effects” on people’s faith, this book (which received very little attention for those reasons) is actually much more dangerous.  The ideas about the Bible and what it supposedly teaches are seriously heretical.  Of course, as long as you are aware of that reality, and can read the book with a critical eye (and without just accepting the characters’ ideas as truth), you need not avoid the book.  It is a very good read.  And a well-told story.  But you can, if you want, just skip the last 15-20 pages of “talking” and you won’t lose anything important to the story.

 

Business Section

Headline: No Longer Playing “The Game”

Synopsis: This morning, I cancelled my subscription to The Grocery Game.  I have used the website for about three months, but it had become apparent that it wasn’t really working for me.  First of all, the stores in my area did not have the same sales/coupon specials that the site indicated would be there.  So while the database indicated I could get an item for, say, $1.25 with coupons and such, my price would never be that low (because of lack of doubling/tripling or something).  Also, my stores didn’t seem to stock well the items that were the best bargains.  So multiple times (sometimes on a single shopping trip), the shelf would be totally bare of the cereal, cake mix, or other item that was supposedly a great deal.  I never figured out whether to blame the store for not having enough or other shoppers for not leaving some for others, but this reality very much frustrated me.  Thirdly, the philosophy was to keep your coupon inserts and cut them as you went.  And this merely resulted in me having a large stack of (very old) coupon inserts on my kitchen counters.  Since I never found a good way to organize them, I just finally gave up.

So now, I’m going back to my old way of shopping.  I am going to cut out every coupon that I might use and then throw away the inserts.  I am going to go back to planning carefully what I need for the next two weeks of meals or snacks so that (hopefully) I only need to go to the grocery twice a month (or maybe a quick run for milk or something super necessary).  I am going to buy, to the best of my ability, what’s on sale and with coupons.  And if there’s a good sale, I will stock up on something.  But mostly, I never really figured out how to make the “shopping to stock up” philosophy work for my family.  I will miss having the Grocery Game site to have an idea of what’s on sale before I go.  But sadly, the site didn’t really help me recoup more than it cost to subscribe.  And that made it not really worth the cost.

 

Editorial Page

Headline: Fireworks Not Good for Community Connections

Synopsis: So our neighbors, it seems, love fireworks.  Yes, they’re illegal.  Yes, they are done (professionally) 2-3 times a year.  But neither of those things are sufficient for some of our cul-de-sac compatriots.  While I was told that a neighbor did once call out “Does anyone mind if I set these off?” to the neighborhood at large, we weren’t home that night.  Nor can one easily respond well to such a “request” for permission.  So it continues.  And while the older boys in the neighborhood (upper elementary and middle school, mostly) think it’s marvelous, the rest of us are less than amused. 

It is an annoying and frustrating reality that from Memorial Day to Labor Day (with the peak being around Fourth of July, obviously), our neighbors submit us to a barrage of bangs, whistles and booms around dusk on a regular basis.  In recent weeks, someone has been setting up shop in the middle of the cul-de-sac every 2-3 days (or so), and as the Fourth approaches, it will become even worse.  The weekend of the Fourth, they will set fireworks off every night.  

This habit is incredibly frustrating because it distresses the dogs and babies nearby.  For obvious reasons, the fireworks displays that they set off happen after our children’s bedtimes, which makes for a tense few minutes while I pray they don’t wake up scared.  When one went off unexpectedly on an evening where we had our windows open, my daughter absolutely melted down in fear.  And one that was set off while I was driving down the street sounded like a gunshot and scared me quite badly.  

Not only are fireworks distressing aurally, those who set off the fireworks are really inconsiderate of their neighbors’ properties.  They set them off in the middle of our cul-de-sac’s turnaround, though they do not live on the properties adjacent to that part of the street.  So the next morning, those of us who do own those properties awake to find our roofs, yards, sidewalks, and driveways covered in burnt paper and other fireworks remnants.  This is particularly annoying because I can’t let my babies play where such paraphernalia is, and our neighbors who are selling their house now have to deal with trash on their roof and in their yards during showings.

I am not opposed to fireworks in general.  If the “displays” were limited to those special holidays which are particularly associated with fireworks, I would have no real beef.  But the inconsideration of our neighbors seems to be getting worse and worse (especially this summer), and I have no real idea how to deal with the situation.  It is quite annoying, and I wish people would be a little more concerned about how their “fun” affects those around them in less than fun ways. 

 

And that is the newest edition of our “online paper” – Happy Monday!

Friday morning

…and I’m dumpy.  Not really sure why.  I’ve been fighting it all week.  

I could go through a list of all my complaints, but I suspect that won’t help me get over myself.  Which is what I really need to do, I think.

So I’ve been trying to be more diligent about doing productive things and making sure I spend some time in my bible and giving myself a schedule for the day and such. 

But mostly, I am still struggling not to wallow. 

I guess it’s just one of those weeks. 

Feel free to share any happy Friday thoughts you’ve got…especially if you’ve had a really great week.

And I hope you all have a marvelous weekend!

He LOVED it!

We went to a sprinkler park in Dublin (the Bunny Park, for all who know) yesterday for the first time.  I got lost on the way there (Google Maps gave less than stellar directions), but thankfully, Karen helped me figure out how to find the place. 

Alex thought it was the best-est place on earth.  He splashed and tried to catch the fountains when they disappeared.  He loved the waterfalls and drinking out of the sprays, then wiping his face off and doing it again.  He made sure he could always see me, but he was having a blast!

Erin, well, not so much.  It was pretty full, and commotion tends to overwhelm her easily.  It was loud, too, from the sound of rushing water and the spray jets.  And she hates loud noises.  And we skipped morning nap to go, so she was pretty tired.  Which meant that I held her for most of the time we were there.  I did coax her to stand on her own a couple of times, but inevitably, some bigger kids would go barreling by and splash her in the face, and she’d melt down again.  

So we were 1-for-2 at the Bunny Park, but I still consider it a successful venture.  After all, we made it out of the house.  We went to a park.  And I actually and intentionally went to a gathering of twin mommies I didn’t know (this is somewhat hard for me, you might be surprised to know).  

And I learned a couple of things…

1. I need to start taking my kids to more places where other kids are.  They may still be too young to play with the kids, but they need to spend time around kids other than just each other.

2. It is really hard to take twins (at this age) out to a place like that by myself.  We can do stores pretty easily.  But parks and social gatherings are very tiring for me.  I need to do it more so we all get better at it, but yesterday, I came home pretty darn beat!

So anyway, that was our adventure for yesterday.  Today, the adventure is going to be limited to laundry.  Exciting, I know.  But mommy is running out of shirts to wear!  So happy Thursday!!

18 months old!

So the babies turned 18 months old last week.  But this morning we had their well-visit appointment.  It went very “well.”

Erin was not a fan of the doctor this time.  It was like she remembered him and was less than happy that he was in the room with us.  The funny thing is that he never does the “mean” things (ie, shots), so I’m not sure why she was so opposed to his presence.  Oh well…  

The doctor was, as usual, very helpful with information and ideas for where they are and what to expect.  He agreed we aren’t ready to potty-train yet.  And he recommended leaving them in cribs until 2 (unless they start pitching themselves out all of a sudden).  I’m not sure whether we will do that or whether we will transition them to toddler beds before the new baby comes (so we can use one of the cribs for her!).  I’m still torn about the best way to rearrange things to accommodate NLS (new little sister).  I guess we have some time yet, though, so we shall see where things go…

Anyway, as for an update, they are both 31.5 inches long.  Alex is still a pound heavier (23+ to Erin’s 22+).  And that pound still feels like 4 pounds when you pick them up.  They way they eat, I was expecting much closer to 25 lbs. each, but hey, I guess that means I’m not over-feeding them!

As for percentiles, they’re both pretty small.  Erin’s height puts her at 42nd percentile.  But other than that, they’re less than 20% for weight.  And Alex is about 25th percentile in height.  It would seem Erin did more growing than Alex this time, but I have heard that boys do more growth than girls during the 18-24 month range.  So we shall see how things stand in December!

(Yikes…I just realized I left without scheduling a 2-year appointment.  Dang it!  I hate having to remember to call them to schedule.  I should do that soon, though, so I don’t forget.)

 

I’m not sure if I have a lot of other new 18 month old updates.  Here’s what I can think of –   

– They are loving to walk places, holding our hands (instead of using the stroller).  I have to admit…I like it, too!

– Erin’s new word is “potty.”  This usually is referring to me going to the bathroom, but I figure giving her some vocab related to potty-training is a good place to start.

– They are learning to eat “with forks.”  Mostly this looks like them holding a fork in one hand and eating with their other hand as usual.  But sometimes, the whole spoon/fork – to food – to mouth thing actually works.  And so far, we haven’t gotten too messy in the process!

– Alex has stopped sleeping well at night again over the weekend.  I think we’re just over-tired.  And he usually doesn’t require my presence to settle back down.  But it’s never fun to be awakened 1-2 times in the night, so I hope he gets back to good sleep soon!

– Yesterday, at my parents’ house, Alex was LOVING the slide.   He liked to go down on his stomach, feet-first.  He couldn’t get enough.  The boy has no fear…it’s really fun to watch!

 

And I guess that’s about it…have a happy Monday!