The Recap
So the weekend was busy, but I did take time to relax, too. Here’s the scoop…
Friday: I did make it to my parents’ house, and I helped cut green beans. (I’d guess my mom has canned all weekend.) I was quite a bit tense from the rear-end “nudge” I got on the way down. The quick version: I was first at the red light. Light turned green. I roll forward, see the ambulance coming into the intersection, stop. The lady behind me doesn’t see ambulance, doesn’t stop. She really wanted it to be my fault. It wasn’t.
Anyway, thankfully we weren’t going at all fast, but it still freaked me out a bit. After all…I’ve never been pregnant before…I don’t have a clue what should concern me! So I was just a bit on the emotional side all the rest of that day. I drove home about 4:00, and Eric and I had dinner on the couch (ham sandwiches) and watched The Incredibles. Also, sometime in the middle of the night (after my nightly jaunt to the bathroom), my rational side kicked back on, and between that and some real, faith-based prayer (choosing not to be afraid is much easier said than done), I stopped being so fretful.
Saturday: Okay I did fret a bit on and off throughout the weekend, mostly because I had more aches and pains than usual. Of course, that could just be because I’m 18 weeks along with twins, but I would’ve preferred it didn’t happen the day after being rear-ended! So on Saturday, I did some chores and stood too much. I realized this when I was walking around the grocery store, so I sat on the couch and read a book for a couple of hours. Then we went to a cookout for the evening which was lots of fun. And I didn’t have to cook dinner! Lovely!
Sunday: Only one unusually hard tightening sensation in my abdomen all day. That made me feel better. And of course, on Sundays, I do very little anyway, so that probably helped! We went to church, headed home for a meatloaf dinner, then goofed off for the rest of the day. Eric finished clearing out the babies’ room so we could vacuum and clean the carpets. I did a lot of looking online for baby things. We read some, watched some television, and made homemade pizza for supper.
Oh! And about 7:00, our doorbell rang. It was our next-door neighbor. She wanted to know if I’d want her summer maternity clothes, which she will never wear again and doesn’t want to pack/store when they move in a couple of months. Um….yes! So she brought me over at least $100 worth of name-brand maternity clothes and wouldn’t take anything for them. It was such a helpful gesture, and now I have clothes, but didn’t have to spend any money on them. I must think of something nice to say thank you.
Today’s agenda is somewhat vague. I have a load of laundry I should do. Other than that…no idea. Happy Monday!
Isn’t it amazing how quickly fear can seize us and mess with our ability to think clearly? I have had a couple of experiences like that.
How cool about the maternity clothes!
@chrissdeb – Scroll down to the bottom of your screen. Hold your mouse over the “about this theme” menu and choose “View all themes.” Then I just randomly look through them until I find one I like.
Where do you find such cute backgrounds for your xanga site?
I’m sure the wait isn’t what you were hoping for, but it will all work out!
I’m sure everything’s fine. They’re pretty protected in there so you should have nothing to worry about!
What kind of baby stuff did you look at?
Glad you’re doing better! Hooray for free maternity clothes!!
@MomEdlund – A week from Wednesday. It wasn’t possible to get in on Friday, and as I’m not really having “issues,” I’m sure things are fine. But I am much looking forward to my next appointment…needless to say!
When did you say you get to go to the doctor again? I know when Trisha had her little fender bender when she was pregnant it helped to hear the doctor say everything was still in order!!
@terriwright – You’re always right, Terri! I’ll never doubt you again…
I TOLD you you’d be sore Saturday……..
Free maternity clothes rock. Cook them something.
So sorry about your accident! Glad it seems that you are ok. VERY cool about your clothes! Perhaps one of your yummy pies would be in order? If that’s not too much for you…
@ch1pch0p – No damage, no cops, although I did have to demand that she swap insurance information with me. She didn’t want to exchange, but I insisted. It also took her a minute to realize I was pregnant…then she softened a bit. But then she started demanding to know whether I was going to go get checked out…which is what started freaking me out the most!
Was there any damage to the cars? I bet the woman freaked out when she saw you get out and realized you were pregnant.. Did you have to call the cops?
very, very cool about the free clothing!!!
praise the Lord that you and the babies are OK!!!
so sorry about the car accident.
You should get your neighbor a gift card or something that will help her out when she moves.
Thanks for coming to the zoo with us. We had lots of fun! Glad you’re doing better.